Sunday, October 2, 2011

Keys to a Happy Marriage #1 COMMUNICATION

"It's true that action speaks louder than words...but you have to hear first the words and see the actions at the same time to avoid confusion."

Communication is the main reason why any relationship (bf/ gf, husbands/ wives, friends, paternal) happened to last or ends their relationship with each other. Me and hubby once have problems in terms of communication, since I am a reserve person, and he, on the other hand is a talkative one; that leads us to quarrel most of the time especially when we have little misunderstandings and it grew bigger because of miscommunication... For one reason is that I hate talking a lot when I'm mad and he's forcing me to speak out when I don't want to... But I've come to realized that to have our relationship to work, I should somehow cooperate with him so that we wouldn't end up upset with each other or the worst hate each other. And being the girl, I should be the first one to lower my pride and that is the most important lesson I've learned in life. 

As of now, me and hubby were unwed, but we're planning to have a civil wedding by the end of the year to be legally binded together and not having problems with papers when we get a chance to work abroad in the near future, yet we're also planning getting married in church maybe when we already have our own savings...maybe 5 years from now. *wink*

All I wanted to impart to everyone is that no matter what trials that come our way, it can be surpassed.. only if we converse with our partners what we want our relationship to be... a good communication makes up a good relationship...

Have a Blessed Sunday to everyone!


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Jona said...

can't agree more...good communication makes up a good marriage. hope you get your heart's desire to officially tie the knot with your lovey soon :D

thanks for joining once again Kar!

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