As human beings, we are bound to commit mistakes and encounter problems in life. But what's good about committing mistakes is that we were given another chance for changes and learning with the help of our loved ones and most especially by ourselves.
And couples cannot run away from these... Who in here in a relationship or already been married for years or just recently been married weren't able to experience trials by being together? If anyone could convince me that they weren't able to experience it.. I'm gonna be dead by now...lol..*just kidding*. But seriously talking, I'll gonna be your number 1 fan if any of you here who weren't been able to encounter it. We all know that we are not perfect and each one of us are unique in our own little way. So we cannot blame others for not fitting in in our preferences. As couple's, what matters between you and I is that we just have to understand our differences may it be good or bad so that we could learn from each other and that whatever tests/ trials will come your way, you will be able to surpass it. A key to a happy marriage isn't just about you're both compatible with each other, but by differences you were still able to embrace each other wholeheartedly. Me and hubby were totally different from each other but we collided, it's all because our love for each other is more greater than our pride. That's what we've learned from being together for the past 4 years of our relationship. Well I'm not saying that we have a perfect relationship, we do encounter trials and misunderstandings same with the other couple's around, though I cannot change the fact that we will still be encountering trials later on in our relationship but we are ready to face it without any fear or hesitations because we're confident knowing that our love is the testimony of our perfect love for each other.. and no trials can brought us apart..♥  ♥  ♥   
A Sweet Saturday to Everyone..

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"It's true that action speaks louder than words...but you have to hear first the words and see the actions at the same time to avoid confusion."

Communication is the main reason why any relationship (bf/ gf, husbands/ wives, friends, paternal) happened to last or ends their relationship with each other. Me and hubby once have problems in terms of communication, since I am a reserve person, and he, on the other hand is a talkative one; that leads us to quarrel most of the time especially when we have little misunderstandings and it grew bigger because of miscommunication... For one reason is that I hate talking a lot when I'm mad and he's forcing me to speak out when I don't want to... But I've come to realized that to have our relationship to work, I should somehow cooperate with him so that we wouldn't end up upset with each other or the worst hate each other. And being the girl, I should be the first one to lower my pride and that is the most important lesson I've learned in life. 

As of now, me and hubby were unwed, but we're planning to have a civil wedding by the end of the year to be legally binded together and not having problems with papers when we get a chance to work abroad in the near future, yet we're also planning getting married in church maybe when we already have our own savings...maybe 5 years from now. *wink*

All I wanted to impart to everyone is that no matter what trials that come our way, it can be surpassed.. only if we converse with our partners what we want our relationship to be... a good communication makes up a good relationship...

Have a Blessed Sunday to everyone!

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June is a very special month for fathers, b'cos this is the only time that they could be given credits for being a good dad in the whole wide world. I know that they shouldn't just be given thanks only in this month but throughout their lives...and it only means that we should express our gratitude to our fathers (mothers) everyday as we live.

What kind of father do you have?

I was touched with this question from a story I've read about two brothers who had grown up with a not so good dad. They were both being beaten up every time their dad is drunk. They both had families of heir own but still living on the same street. The other son became just like his dad. While the other became his dad's opposite. One day a neighbor came over their houses and asked them the same question "What kind of father do you have?", the son who's just like his dad answered I grew up with an alcoholic dad who always beats me up without any reasons and b'cos he's not a good example of an ideal father, I grew up just like him. And the other son answered the same question, I grew up with an alcoholic dad who always beats me up without any reasons and b'cos he's not a good example of an ideal father, I don't want my children to experience whatever I've been through during my childhood, and that's one reason why I don't want to follow the steps of my father and rather choose to become a good father to my children...

Maybe some of you who happen to read my post can somehow relate with the story or others may be luckier not to experience this. I'm as well can relate with the story I've just shared b'cos same as the two sons, I also grew up with a not so good/ ideal father. And b'cos I'm now a mom to my only child, I don't want her to experience whatever not so good experience I had in my childhood...and that's one reason that I talked to Joey with disciplining our child. I wanted our child to have us her parents whom she can trust and treat not only as her parents but her best friends as well. We wanted her to grew up without any conditions, but rather teach her to become a better person she can be, never afraid of taking risks but also must be responsible of her actions by knowing her limitations...

So this post I dedicate to the father of my daughter, daddy Joey, who's a very supportive dad to Chin. A loving father and her best friend, who sometimes teaches her no good and sometimes very protective (minsan O.A na) lol ...*wink* (just kiddin')...Happy Father's Day!...*SMOOCHES

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Happy Easter everyone!

Im Back!!! Whew, it's been quite a long long time for me, not to be able to have my post for my weekly memes...it's all because of my busy schedules last week and also for a meaningful sacrifice for the Holy Week.

I started not posting blogs last Saturday since I need to take some rest, for my trip the next day to Cebu. I went there last Sunday and by arriving at Cebu, I just secure my things to my granny's house and went to IT Park where my friend Marf is working, then she told me that I'll be her guest for that day to see the open-house of the Avida Condominium they're selling. Below are some photo's of the condo rooms which is very affordable. 

After the open-house, we went to church to hear mass with her bf Christopher, whom I saw the first time for he was at UK when me and Marf meet and became friends and only see him and know him in fb since we're friends there. The next day I went to PRC to get my board rating certification and then went back to Negros in preparation for my pre-birthday celebration with my babe and dhe. I arrived in Negros around 8pm that day and went to sleep.

The next day April 19, I woke up early in the morning around 4am to prepare my stuffs and cook rice which I'll be bringing to Bacolod for my pre-birthday celebration at the Caribbean Waterpark with my babe and hubby. At around 8am me and my babe headed to Bacolod where Joey is waiting for us at the Goldenfield where the waterpark is located. Then we pay the cottage and get a locker where we left first our things cos' we need to buy foods at the nearest mall there. After we're done buying foods for lunch and snacks, we went back to the waterpark and prepared ourselves to go swimming all day long (and we did...*wink*). I never really celebrate my birthday eversince, cos' it's so costly and only go to church in the morning and just with my family at home is more enough with me. But this day is different, which I can say that it was the most wonderful birthday I ever had. And the first time I celebrated it before my birthday (April 20 is my natal day), since it was Joey's off from his work at the hospital, and the only time we could bond together the three of us. Here are some photo's we had during my pre-birthday celebration.

at the entrance...actually my babe is afraid of the statue

Babe is also afraid of Poseidon's statue at the back, cos' she says that he is looking at her wherever she goes

with her newly met friend at the waterpark which is the same age as her

courtesy of my babe, she was the one who took this picture..;)

The best birthday I ever celebrated, and was made special with these two people I loved most. Thanks for this wonderful moment dhe and babe...You are both my treasures.. Love you both!

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