|Faith, Hope and Love but the greatest of these is LOVE - 1 Corinthians 13:13|
I see hearts everywhere and I love it!
This life can be so negative and impossible at times, but we all know how much LOVE can make a difference. It all started at the moment of my conception when God chooses my parents and created me to a wonderful creature who's existing today with all the details in His likeness (from the tip of my hair to the soles of my foot). When God saved the man of my life and had my baby with him. When God made me meet my true friends through ups and downs. When God gave me enemies, trials and troubles...still I see hearts in them, b'cos of them I was able to feel God's TRUE LOVE for me, cos' He won't gave them to me if He doesn't want me to be stronger and more happier. And it's a nice feeling to wake up and thank each day I live bcos of LOVE...And with just one little heart I have for them, everyday it just keeps growing. They are such beautiful reminders to cheer up, to be happy and to share love to everybody.
But every relationship has its own weakness and flaws, but that makes it more taunting...we will never know if that the love we have for the one's we love is worth keeping if we'll unable to quell its empediment.
The first test we've battled together was (here).
Then another trial made us more stronger...It was last summer of 2010 when my hunny's ex-gf was tellin' everybody that I am too jealous of her and was incriminating me of wrecking her and her family to her husband (which is actually not TRUE) besides, I really don't feel that way towards her or anybody... I admit I do appreciate and love her to be my friend eventhough my past sila ng husband ko...that's whhy I take the first move to befriend her on fb and friendster and was looking forward in person; and was genuine of my intention that I even apologize to her 'bout what had accrue between her and my hunny (even if my hunny isn't approved with it). I was insisting on him that there's nothing wrong with it... and I told him "kung my past kayo, sa inyo naman yun' diba..past is past, kaya nga I was the one na unang nakipagkaibigan...your past doesn't matter, what's more important is the present". But it so happened that this girl I thought a friend happened to accused me at ang lakas pa ng loob para puntahan kami sa bahay not to clear things up, but to directly accused me of something I didn't do and never will do...She even brought her 2 friends with her para lang ipahiya ako sa kanila and showed us a copy-pasted paper she printed whom she said was sent to her husband by an anonymous sender and pointed me to be responsible for it...I was so confused that I didn't talked much or even explain myselt to them. Bcos I told myself "Never explain yourselt to anyone bcos the person who loves you doesn't needs it...and the person who dislikes you wouldn't believe it!". and I just told them to show us real proofs and facts; not just a copy-pasted paper...(malay ba namin kung gawa-gawa lang niya yun' para lang mapag-usapan). When my MIL knew about it, she told us to file a summon on her at the barangay hall kasi hindi makatarungan na basta na lang siya magbintang at sa property pa namin...Pasalamat nga siya kasi I wasn't reared by my parents na palengkera, and will never go down to that level..and when we meet at the hall, she brought with her that copy-pasted paper and this time iba na kasi the recent message ko sa husband niya for some clarifications ay idinugtong niya dun'...para lang idiin ako...So Pathetic! Pero wala ring nahantungang maganda ung pag-uusap na iyon kasi we aren't been cleared with things..and it even worst! The next thing we knew is kumalat na 'yung mga nude pics ko sa fb using my identity but not my account under email@example.com and send request to all her friends and even some of my fb friends. Good thing that one of her friends was so concerned of me and my hunny that she told us that those pictures were being printed by her husband when he came to the Philippines para sunduin siya goin' with him to UK. And those pics were shown to them at her despidida party and were also shown to some people in our place. I really don't know how they did it, but one thing I remembered when she told us during the confrontation that " IT kaya yung asawa ko, kaya mag-ingat ka!" and another is when she asked me of my email address (these are all facts and have proofs with it kasi naka-save pa ito sa account ko and not just a heresay). And one thing that made us conclude that she was behind these all is when her 2 sisters went to our house to hand those pics to my in-laws and husband (para daw ipamukha sa kanila what kind of girl I am...and their purpose na paghiwalayin kami). But they didn't win us cos' the more they'll try to break us, the more stronger our love would be. And admitted that those pics where handed to them by her while at the airport waiting for their flight (without their knowing that the conversations were recorded). I was overwhelmed with my in-laws and husband for their love for me kaya wala din silang napala...and alam na namin na pupunta sila sa'min kasi may nakapag-tip na sa'min na kilala din nila.
We have lots of proofs with us that made us decide to file a blotter report at the police station and also send the evidences to the National Bureau of Investigation (NBI) at Bacolod City. We also consulted legal advise from my grandfather who's a lawyer and at the same time a judge and to my BIL who's also a lawyer. We're just waitin' na bumalik siya ng Pinas para makapag-file na kmi ng case sa kanya...and was glad knowing that there's a criminal case approved just last year about this incedence under R.A. No. 9995 which I'm looking forward to by the moment she'll show up here...Nakakalungkot lang isipin na kailangan pang humantong sa ganito...at ako pa yung lumabas na masama sa ibang tao cos' she tells them otherwise...Well it doesn't matter as long as I know myself, my limitations and my hunny, family and friends are still behind me... I'm confident to face the world! Afterall, I wasn't angry with her, infact, I pity her more kasi if puro envy and vengence lang yung sa mind niya...she will never be happier as what she's tellin' everybody around.
I have so much love in my heart that there's no room for hatred and revenge...still I'm open for reconciliation...Actually I always include her and her family in my prayers for the best (hindi to' echus). And not to be bragging, maybe that's one reason why my hunny and friends still sticks around...bcos they know I have a good heart...and "It really doesn't matter if the world tells you it's wrong, cos if you love each other, you dont need the world, you just need each other."(wink)
One thing we've got to learn, is that no person is better than the other. Some are blessed with knowledge, some with beauty, some with great wealth, some with strength, and some unique gift from God that are yet to find. The essence of "being" is not you "rank" or "greatness" but being who God made us to be - radiantly beautiful inside...I know there's still more trials that we'll be facing ahead us...but one thing I'm confident knowing that despite of all these trials, we never gave up on each other...and those trials were just instruments to make our love for each other more stronger and deeper...only with great love and understanding will make us to conquer it all!
Start looking for LOVE and I promise you, it will start finding you, too. And if you find it never let it go. Love is just a series of hearts in circles, you'll find it, the next thing you'll lose it! But life must go on...cos' everything happens for a reason. Only then can we set our hearts free, allowing us to repair our wings and set flight on finding love again......All in God's perfect time!
So let's collect the hearts of the world. I promise it will make your he♥rt happy:)